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143 Pairs of Socks Displayed in the Church Welcome Center |
When the season starting changing into fall, I thought about putting on warmer shoes. For most of the summer I have worn sandals. No need for socks then.
And that is where three separate ideas came together for me. Number One: I wanted some new socks. Number Two: I wanted to have a party to get to know more of the ladies in my church. I hadn't had a party for some time. And Number Three: When I told Walter that I wanted to have a party to exchange socks, he added that we should ask attendees to bring a pair of socks for The Way of Hope ladies. Well, that did it. It all crystallized for me in that one moment. I would have a "Joy of Sox" party that benefited that organization.
There is nothing that gets me into total housecleaning mode than knowing that a group of people are coming over for a party! For two days Walter and I whirled around our house, taking note of all the little things we had always meant to do and then the miraculous happened! We did them. We painted doors, bought new rugs, etc. You get the idea.
I knew we needed a catchy invitation to coax people into our home on a lovely fall Saturday. So I settled on a play of words when I settled on The Joy of Sox party. I emailed almost all the ladies in our church and even had the preacher announce it on his Wednesday night service. To a few ladies without email I printed and mailed an invitation.
The wording on the invitation was:
It's that time of year again ladies. It's the time we go from sandals to boots and
closed toe shoes. So what do we need?
SOCKS OF COURSE! You can never
have too many socks! Oh, the joy of sox.
So please buy some socks-white ones, funny ones or seasonal
ones. Wrap one pair up for our gift
exchange and bring the others unwrapped to my house for a good time together
and to help some ladies in our community.
All unwrapped socks will be given to the Way of Hope ladies.
What:
The Joy of Sox Party
Who:
All women interested in having a good time and also helping others
(Bring a friend, too)
Where: Martha's House
When: 10:00-1:00, Saturday, Oct. 25,
2014
Why:
Outrageous fun and Way of Hope benefit
Feel free to bring a finger food to share, if you would
like. I will have some nibbles and
drinks for you. Please drop me an email
or text to let me know if you can or cannot attend so I can have enough food
for everyone. I hope to see you
Saturday!
We had fifteen attend which filled my living room and kitchen area up. We played the Lap Game which involved a series of questions where if you answered YES you moved to the chair left of you. If you answered NO then you stayed in the chair. Sometimes people were two or three to a chair. Well, this was a great icebreaker. As an example, to the question "Have you ever flown?", one lady said NO and the lady next to her said YES, she was a past flight attendant. So she wound up sitting in her lap. Ha! What a match up that was.
After eating all of the goodies that people brought, we played two more games. We had volunteers uncover one foot for a game to see who could put the most marbles into a plate. They had three turns. Another game we had more volunteers uncover a foot and as we all chanted the time, they vied to see who could get the most socks on that foot before the time ran out. The winners got nine socks! Prizes were awarded for these games. Simple prizes-a variety of teas and autumn themed dishtowels.
Then I divided the group into equal teams for the relay race. Participants had straws and a tissue. The winning team got the tissue to their last team member without touching it with anything other than the straw. Each team dropped the tissue but was able to get it up by sucking on their straw. Hilarious!! The winning team got to share a full bag of Halloween chocolate bars.
Then we got down to the sock exchange. We played this game using the same rules that the Dirty Santa game uses. Three steals and the sock is officially Dirty and can not be stolen again. This ended the party on a great note!
I read somewhere that a great party is the one you yourself enjoyed. And believe me I did enjoy being with these ladies. I took all the party day stress off of myself by making food items the prior day and serving simple things. I made sausage balls and miniature ham and biscuits. I put out chips and dip, candy corn mixed with cashews, frozen eclairs and set out bottled water and liters of several varieties of sodas. The ladies brought other finger foods. How easy was that? Perfect, I would say.
The highlight of the party was the group gathered 131 pairs of socks that morning for the Way of Hope Ladies. This is an organization that houses homeless ladies and small children in seventeen churches in the area. My church houses them two nights each month. We run around 50 people but with the cooler weather and the holidays coming, I predict that the number will rise quickly. In fact, we had 62 people last time. So we will be able to distribute the socks very quickly. The participation was good. Some people who were not able to be at the party were there in spirit. The sent socks and some brought them to the church. That is why the number has risen to 143 pairs gathered to date. I have a few more promised.
I had never given a benefit before. I would definitely do it again. It warms my heart to know someone in my community will have warm feet due to a morning of fun and games at my house.
God is good!